Monthly Archives: April 2021

knowing Fear

It’s amusing that any thing which can be attributed to love can also be attributed or interpreted as fear. A child clinging to his/her mother can be understood in both ways – the child clings out of love, or out of fear, its the most primal emotion which basically is an impression of the past reflecting the future of the present, when people deny fear they become egocentric; when they recognise and accept it they go beyond it they become free from it.

Total lack of fear is possible only in utter chaos or in utmost orderliness, neither a saint nor a lunatic has fear, but fear is felt by people who are in between. Fear has its importance in sustenance of  the world, it is essential to preserve the order in the world, it is a primal instinct.

Fear of death preserve Life

Fear of wrong maintain right

Fear of sickness encourages hygiene


Do not try to eliminate fear, a pinch of it is required to keep you on the right path

Whenever a boundary is broken, it creates fear which creates aversion, this aversion brings you back inside the boundary and to keep your self in the boundary you set p defences, but when you try to defend your position it becomes stress and every time you try to defend your position it makes you weaker.

For example : waking up early in the morning for workout is for many breaking a boundary,  now the inertia of fear comes into play, it convinces you that waking up early in the morning for exercise causes more harm then good, as you work life demands you to remain awake late in the night and proper sleep is necessary for good health, hence you fall back within your boundaries and this time you would create better defences with the help of knowledge.

Let the happening be for the past, let the doing be for the present and the future is a mix of both.



Wounds of Life

Do you feel like telling your emotional story to the whole world, choose carefully who you want to share with.

Sharing our emotions makes our heart feel light. When the emotions are shared with the right person, it can help us to heal but if we open our heart in front of everyone, it can leave us even more hurt.

When we are going through a broken phase in life, at times we feel like sharing our story with everyone. Most of the people want to know your story because it makes them feel better about their own life. They like to feel pity on you rather than feeling empathetic. Only very few of your loved ones really understand your pain and truly want you to heal.

Most of those who want to see you suffer are in disguise of your friends and relatives, keep reminding your self to smile in front of them, if you can’t fake it!

It’s not easy to find out who really your loved once are, to find them you have to trust your heart, let your heart decide on who it really connects with, trust me it works.

If you are wounded, keep it to yourself and open up only to those who really care. Showing your wound to everyone will only delay its healing.


True meaning of losing is when you are unable to retrieve what you have lost. Lost time and people who have gone forever are the biggest losses in life. 

If you ever come across situations when you lose every bit of what you have built, you lose everything that you have accumulated and you are left with nothing, remember, things can be built, wealth can be gained but  lost moment and lost lives cannot. You can never reverse time to enjoy those moments that are lost nor you can bring back those people you are holding a grudge against. These loses are irreparable. Spend beautiful moments with those you love leaving aside your ego and arrogance. Disagreements may happen but choose to move on without the feeling of resentment.

Always try your best you make the best use of your time so you can spend best moments with those you love. Only the time you spend creating beautiful memories is worthwhile, time lost in grudges is only a waste.