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How to Motivate YourSelf In life

In our darkest hours, even our shadow leaves us, all the doors are shut on our face, we feel anxious, confused and in denial of the present state, often we come in this situation by our own mistakes, if we see the root cause of our situation could be our greed, our miscalculation or may be our foolhardiness, when we desperately seek to bring our life back on track its very important although difficult to calm your mind but we must realise that this is the only way to move forward.

“As your self what would I do if I wasn’t scared?” if asked properly, the answer to this question will give all the answers to you current and future problems, ever seen how a cat reacts when she is surrounded and has no escape route, she launches the most extraordinary and fierce attack, which most of the time overwhelm’s her adversaries.

 What would I do if I wasn’t scared? leave your fears aside for couple of moments and find the answer to this question, and I assure you that you will get the most simple and realistic answers to your problems, simple but most effective and most importantly realistic in the situation you are in.

Always believe that there is no adversity you can’t defeat, your weapons in this fight are fearlessness and calmness, force a smile on your face even under tremendous pressure.

One very important point, in such times no matter what you must remain truthful, bring a better plan on the table and have faith in your self and your abilities, you will emerge victorious.

There are problems which we may not have any control on and they are not our creation, demise of a loved one, loss of livelihood due to an act of god like flood or earthquake or an outbreak of a disease, like the one currently our world is grappling with, there is not much you can do in these situations, but do realise that you are not the only one suffering in these situations.

Life is ephemeral, its structure is very fragile, you must realise that you have to be very alert in making your choices, the modern civilisation is created by the brave and the foolhardy, but one out of a million succeed in expeditions which change the course of the world.

Always analyse what is at stake and what could be lost if you don’t win the roulette, most importantly the life style of your loved once must not diminish.




knowing Fear

It’s amusing that any thing which can be attributed to love can also be attributed or interpreted as fear. A child clinging to his/her mother can be understood in both ways – the child clings out of love, or out of fear, its the most primal emotion which basically is an impression of the past reflecting the future of the present, when people deny fear they become egocentric; when they recognise and accept it they go beyond it they become free from it.

Total lack of fear is possible only in utter chaos or in utmost orderliness, neither a saint nor a lunatic has fear, but fear is felt by people who are in between. Fear has its importance in sustenance of  the world, it is essential to preserve the order in the world, it is a primal instinct.

Fear of death preserve Life

Fear of wrong maintain right

Fear of sickness encourages hygiene


Do not try to eliminate fear, a pinch of it is required to keep you on the right path

Whenever a boundary is broken, it creates fear which creates aversion, this aversion brings you back inside the boundary and to keep your self in the boundary you set p defences, but when you try to defend your position it becomes stress and every time you try to defend your position it makes you weaker.

For example : waking up early in the morning for workout is for many breaking a boundary,  now the inertia of fear comes into play, it convinces you that waking up early in the morning for exercise causes more harm then good, as you work life demands you to remain awake late in the night and proper sleep is necessary for good health, hence you fall back within your boundaries and this time you would create better defences with the help of knowledge.

Let the happening be for the past, let the doing be for the present and the future is a mix of both.